You need to develop a certain plan of actions to reach success. The better you are prepared the more chances you have to reach a success. What you need to think over?

Find the places where there ARE women
You want to find an attractive woman? Go to a gym, yoga classes, caf?… Dancing, cooking, hairdressing are activities that are considered to be feminine. Take one to be surrounded with women.

Pickup words
Choose something simple and unobtrusive. Most women do not like creepy phrases

Pick up a conversation
Ask a woman what she thinks about a new exercise you’ve learnt during you classes, about a new meal, etc. Women like expressing their thoughts! Then continue the conversation.

Practice the conversation
It’s not a shame to rehearse your conversation in front of a mirror. Do it like actors do: you will know your words, you will be confident about your looks and you won’t stumble at every word.

Chill out
Make woman think that you are as cool as a cucumber. Show your confidence. While some women feel touchy when asked a phone number most feel OK with e-mail. Give her a pen and ask her to write down her e-mail. And the phone number just in case.

Flirting
Although the genes responsible for the ability to flirt haven’t been discovered yet some people seem to be born flirts. Flirting is a positive act. The goal of flirting is to attract or give attention and make other people feel good. The aim of flirting is clear to both parts. A flirt knows what words and actions can produce the best effect.
As a rule women do not exhibit flirting straightforward but some signals are certainly made to attract attention and express the feelings.

A woman is flirting if:

• She establishes and maintains direct eye contact with you
• She copies your posture
• You notice batting of eyelashes and blinking
• She is playing with her hair
• She smiles to you showing her teeth
• She is licking the lips
• She displays flesh of arm of thigh
• She is crossing her legs towards you
• She laughs a lot
• She accidentally touches you
• She intends to speak to you even if you are in a group

Respond to her flirting or you will miss an excellent chance:

• Be yourself
• Show your confidence
• Feel free
• Maintain the conversation
• Don’t hide your intentions
• Forget about past misfortunes
• Repeat her name in conversation, if you know one
• Be sincere in your flattery
• Smile!
• Respond to her attempt in establishing an eye contact
• Listen to her
• Ask her about her profession, studies, etc. People love talking about themselves

But some actions can push her away:

• Don’t be to obtrusive
• Don’t paw her
• Don’t show that you are nervous
• Don’t hurry
• Don’t make her uncomfortable with your words and actions

Where to date

• And finally she agreed to come to a date. But what can you do together? Where to go?
• There are hundreds of proven places and activities for a date:
• Caf?
• Restaurant
• Cinema
• Theatre
• Dancing hall
• Club
• Concert
• Museum
• Exhibition
• Sporting event (only on condition she likes sports!!!)
• Bowling
• Picnic
• Roller skating
• Canoeing
• Skiing
• Skating
• Amusement park
• Barbeque
• Party

Dating rules

• The first and most important rule: be yourself!
• Don’t make her face an extraordinary meal of movie right on the first date. Be a gentleman.
• Be aware of the latest news so that you can find a topic for conversation. Take care that you do not load her with sports or politics news uninteresting to her.
• Take care about your appearance! Women like to go out with a good-looking man. So choose suitable clothes, comb your hair, brush your teeth, and polish the shoes.
• Use deodorants to remove bad body odor. Otherwise women will assume that you always smell the same.
• To present a woman with a gift is an always fashionable idea. Notwithstanding her words, she likes to be doted on. If you are not sure about a present bring a flower.
• Be punctual and don’t be late for the date
• Don’t lie. Show yourself at your best points but don’t pretend to be somebody else.
• Offer to pay for her; don’t ask her to pay for herself.
• Show your sense of humor but make sure she understands you don’t want to offense her in any way.
• If you realize that you don’t agree on certain things, leave them till better times. You don’t want to quarrel with her right on the first date.
• Listen to her, show your interest. Women like to devour all your attention. But don’t interrupt or show that you are bored. Ask questions to maintain the conversation but keep her interested in it.
• If you still have some time, learn to dance. You have two left feet? Some practice we’ll make you skillful enough to ask her for a dance and make a good impression.
• Pay her compliments but don’t overdo. Some topics are hardly to be discussed on the first day. May be it is better not to tell right now her how beautiful she is when naked?
• Be a gentleman. Politeness and good manners are irreplaceable. To pull out the chair for her, hold the door open for her is necessary not to forget about.
• Don’t show neglect speaking on the phone during the date. Emergency cases are an exception.
• Women like romance and romantic men. Walking near the lake, night stars, dining out, sweet presents will raise you in her opinion.
• Don’t hurry up. Most women will push you off if they realize that all you want is to get laid. If you really feel special about her, wait some time and it will happen naturally. The first date is not always the right time to express you desire.
• If you enjoy the date, tell her.
• If any action caused confusion don’t concentrate on it.
• The date is almost over. Do you want to see her again? Only in that case ask her number and promise to call her. If you do not want to continue your relationship say “It was nice to meet you”, smile and go away. But if you are really attracted to her, say you will call her and show that you are interested in her. Some women prefer not to be kissed after the first date while others consider it normal. Make sure she is expecting a kiss or wait till she makes the first move.
• Don’t lie to anybody about your date. Somebody will definitely retell your words to her.

How to make an impression

• Show your confidence. Your self-esteem will be transmitted to the woman.
• You are a man. Do not complain and whine about your life. YOU are going to protect the woman.
• Talk about the things that she is interested in.
• The more humor the better. But remember that certain things can’t be laughed at and considered sacred.
• Hold her hand if you can. But remember about tact

Reading between the lines

Women are not intended to express their thoughts about the man verbally. They even try to hide their real feelings. But nevertheless she wants you to understand how she feels and what she wants. Surveys have shown that man’s popularity is high if he is confidence, has a great smile, well-groomed and attractive, don’t lack humor and wit, romantic and established emotional connection.
Don’t feel embarrassed if a woman do not say directly “I feel attracted to you”, or “Oh, I want to continue our relationships so much”. Probably she means it. Therefore it’s important to interpret her movements and gestures in the right way. She is definitely interested if:

• She leans forward during the conversation
• She touches her face and her hair during the conversation
• She half-whispers
• She pushes her chest and breasts forward
• She crosses and uncrosses her legs
• She intends to touch you and find different excuses to do it (what a beautiful button, you have something on your jacket)
• She smiles often and it seems to you without any reason
• She licks her lips
• Her eyes are wide open
• She tries to show her best points and to look attractive to you. Do the same!!